The process of choosing and evaluating the different independent school options for your child will undoubtedly vary from school to school. But no matter the schools you are deciding between, most schools require an admission interview. Sometimes this will take place during an already scheduled campus tour; sometimes it will be a standalone event. Whatever the format, one thing is certain: The admissions interview is an important moment and parents may feel anxious about it.
This anxiety is natural. Especially if a parent or child has their heart set on a particular school, the admission interview can be seen as a make or break moment. But it is important to remember that the admission interview isn’t just a chance for the school to evaluate you; it’s also an added opportunity for you to evaluate the school to make sure that it is truly the right fit for your family.
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This is why it is critical to come to a school admissions interview with some questions of your own, so that you can walk away better informed and able to make a decision about your child’s future.
In order to make the process a bit easier, here’s a list of some questions that all parents should be sure to ask during the admissions interview process.
1. What does a typical school day look like?
There is no better way for a parent to get a clear understanding of whether or not their child would fit in at a particular school than by understanding what a typical school day looks like. This should include important logistics like:
- When does the school day start and end?
- What are the transportation options (bus vs. drop off vs. student driving, etc.)?
- What are the school’s breakfast and lunch options?
In addition to logistics, you should also have a clear sense of what a typical class looks like, what a typical class schedule might entail and, if it is a religious school, what daily or weekly worship looks like.
2. What classes or programs does the school offer that help it stand out from other schools in the area?
When it comes to developing curriculum, independent schools have a lot more freedom than public schools, which are limited by state and federal law. Because of this increased freedom, many independent schools are able to offer specialized, unique classes and coursework that can’t be found elsewhere.
These increased opportunities are one of the primary reasons that parents and children consider independent schools over public schools. As such, you should feel free to find out exactly what those opportunities are.
3. What is the school’s educational philosophy?
To truly know whether or not a school is a good fit for your child, you will need to ask them about their educational philosophy.
Do they embrace hands-on, exploratory learning? Do they take a collaborative approach, where students are encouraged to work in teams to solve problems? Does cutting-edge technology play a large part in the educational process? Do teachers tend to follow a more traditional teacher-as-lecturer approach?
None of these philosophies or teaching strategies is inherently right or wrong. But you will understand more than anyone else how your child best learns, and you should use that knowledge to choose a school that will mesh with your child’s needs as best as possible.
4. What extracurricular activities are available to students?
Understanding the extracurricular activities that will be available to your child at every school you are considering is just as important as understanding the school’s academics. Clubs and teams help your children to build social skills, develop interests and talents that can’t be explored in a traditional classroom setting, build confidence, and allow for lifelong memories and friendships.
For those reasons, it’s important for you to make sure that whatever school you ultimately choose for your child offer at least one extracurricular activity that you know would appeal to your child. Examples might include:
- If your child is an athlete, what sports or leagues does the school participate in?
- If your child is a musician, what opportunities for band or orchestra exist?
- If your child is an actor, does the school put on yearly plays or have a drama club?
- If your child is a globetrotter, does the school offer language clubs or yearly trips?
5. Is there a “typical student” that the school recruits?
Just as parent’s evaluate a school to make sure that it is a good fit for their child, independent schools also often evaluate prospective students in order to decide whether or not that child will be a good fit for the school. Whether or not the school actively recruits students, there is very likely to be a “typical student” profile that they keep an eye out for while evaluating candidates.
These profiles may include anything from test scores to past extracurricular activity to leadership experience and more. Some schools, for example, might only evaluate candidates based on academic performance. Others might have a culture that prides itself on sports achievements, which would naturally make them inclined to prefer athletes. Knowing whether or not your child fits the mold of their “typical student” can help give you a sense of what life would be like for your child if they were to be accepted to the school—an important takeaway for any parent.
6. What are the school’s safety policies?
No matter the grade level, safety is always top of mind for parents. You are going to be potentially entrusting your child to this school; you should feel comfortable asking the school about their safety policies, standards, and protocol.
7. What about the school are you, as an administrator, most proud of?
Who better to ask about a school’s key selling points than the admissions team? Make sure that you take the time at some point during your admissions interview to ask the interviewer what about the school they are most proud of.
This will give you an insider’s perspective about what makes the school special, which can be incredibly helpful when you make your final decision. Responses to this question are likely to vary pretty widely, but common answers might revolve around statistics (class size, graduation rate, college matriculation rates, etc.).
8. What are the next steps?
Though this questions is likely already top of mind for you as you evaluate schools, when the interview is over you should be sure to ask about the next steps in the process. Will there be any follow up interviews with yourself or your child? Is a campus tour available? Do you have the opportunity to speak with current parents, faculty, teachers, or coaches to learn more about the school? What materials do you need to submit and when are they due, and, of course, when will you have a final decision?
Your Family’s Future
Choosing the right school for your child is critical to ensuring that their future is as bright and fulfilled as possible. Asking the questions above can help you to make a more informed decision. In addition to what we’ve outlined above, you should also ask any other questions that you are truly concerned about or interested in, which you think would help you better evaluate your options.
Remember, this isn’t just an opportunity for the school to interview you; it’s an opportunity for you to interview the school.